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Redefining Relationships

Most of the millennials today especially those who are aged 25+ are experiencing a pressure of settling down and other associated activities. Aren't we?
The very solution to this issue starts with an introspection. Ask yourself whether you actually want the same. If the answer is yes,then figure out with whom you are getting married at which location and most importantly when? You should have a clarity.
Other aspect pertaining here is "Stick back to your basics". Rediscover your childhood. Reimagine that phase. You are grinning,right?

Have you ever tried to figure out why it was the best phase of your life? We were curious, energetic, eager and above all true and genuine. We didn't had any money 💵💰 in our pockets.2 bucks was kind of a treasure, No? But what's important is we were happy! We laughed our hearts out!

What is to be observed here is "We don't need money to be happy. This fact holds true irrespective of the age group you are in, your location n all. This money is important to feed you. Don't portrait it as source of happiness.

For an instance, if I may ask you what's more relevant:8-digit salary or your breath? Breath,right? This is where we are misleading ourselves. Plan your goals based on reality and truth, not on false assumptions. Explore "Who I am?".

In relationship, don't stick to it. Don't grab it with firm hands. Let it be free. The fact of the matter is everyone will start loving you ever once you let them be free. Love starts from there only. Visualise relationship, past and possession as a part of life. There are millions of other things to integrate as well.

Explore about what's life. Focus on the journey called life.
Live life.laugh.love.Repeat!

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  1. Shekhar's ArenaMarch 26, 2019 at 6:35 AM

    Critical comments are also appreciated.

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  2. Shekhar's ArenaMarch 26, 2019 at 6:36 AM

    shekharsarena.blogspot.com

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  3. Shekhar's ArenaMarch 28, 2019 at 8:30 AM

    You have got the right point of view.

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  4. RAJEEV KUMARApril 1, 2019 at 8:44 AM

    I INSPIRE TO YOUR THOUGHT
    RELATIONSHIP ARE FUNNY THINGS
    YOU HAVE CONSTANTLY
    FALL IN LOVE
    AND CHALLENGE
    EACH OTHER
    EVERYDAY REINVENT YOURSELF
    YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MOTION
    BUT U DECIDE EVERY DAY
    FORWARD AND BACWARD

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  5. UnknownApril 1, 2019 at 9:04 AM

    Worth reading.

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  6. Ameed Ahmad SiddiqueApril 4, 2019 at 4:06 AM

    Redefining relationship, a good topic to talk about and you my friend present a good perspective about relationship and its real circumstances .

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  7. Arpana KumariApril 5, 2019 at 7:43 AM

    I appreciate you

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  8. AmanApril 6, 2019 at 6:10 AM

    According to me one should not commit to anyone unless they are capable enough to take it to the future i.e in all respects financially as well as emotionally. Because its the decision which both have to make for a better future and not a dark one.

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  9. AmanApril 6, 2019 at 6:12 AM

    #shekhar good content

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  10. Shekhar's ArenaApril 6, 2019 at 6:41 AM

    Thanks!

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  11. AbhijeetApril 8, 2019 at 10:34 AM

    Never lose the child in you.. it's precious!!

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  12. dhiraj patelApril 10, 2019 at 6:26 AM

    good job......#shekhar

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    1. Shekhar's ArenaApril 10, 2019 at 6:39 PM

      Thanks.Btw who are you. Better comment with your ID.

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  13. Ashvik sagarApril 16, 2019 at 8:22 AM

    I m totally agree with you himanshu ....we have to give a very less amout of time in social media ....

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  14. Neeraj KumarApril 20, 2019 at 8:13 PM

    I am truly agree with your thoughts himanshH. Keep it up

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  15. Priyanka kumariApril 21, 2019 at 9:09 PM

    Great thought👍👍👍👌👌

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  16. UnknownApril 28, 2019 at 12:11 AM

    Very nice..!!

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  17. Naveen yadavApril 29, 2019 at 7:27 AM

    Great thought 😊
    U write always awesome 😊

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  18. VishnumayaJune 14, 2019 at 11:21 PM

    Good work

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  19. Priyanka kumariJune 15, 2019 at 10:03 AM

    Nice thought👍👍👌👌

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