"Success ka plan sabke pass hota hai, lekin galti se fail ho gaye to failure ke saath kaise deal karna h, koi iski baat hi nahi karna chahta"- From teaching us this crucial lesson to your suicide, you shook us all, Sushant! You were a hope that committed suicide. This is not fair, man! This is not done.
Sushant was not a coward!
People calling him coward, let me tell you. This is purely insensitive and vague. You neither know Sushant nor depression. At 30, he was a self-made superstar, hailing from Patna. AIR 7 in AIEEE, a gold medalist in International Physics Olympiad. Left engineering to start acting from scratch, did serials like Pavithra Rishta- got all the success there and then switched to movies. He was a hero. A coward can never take this amount of risk. So don't judge, before you know the background.
Nepotism and Favourism
These are two completely different words. Both exists in every field, you can imagine of.Favourism is not actually the problem, nepotism is. Our parents want us to live a better life, that's a favour. May be the school/college you are admitted for studying in, is a favour and you may be aware of this fact also.
Our Stand
If you are feeling low, have notions of depression-First, accept that you may be depressed. As friends and family, let's be more compassionate and talk. If a friend of yours is going to a therapist, don't judge, Support! Let's create an environment where not we, another Sushant will say - "Suicide is not a Solution!".
Second step, Boycotting films of a particular set of people is fine but we need to make sure that small, non-commercial, realistic cinema remains alive. Just answer a small question-'Masaan, Nill Batte Sannata, Manjhi-The Mountain Man, Sonchiriya, Paan Singh Tomar, Newton' Out of all these films, how many of these have you watched in a Cinema hall/Multiplex? Have you even watched these movies? We need to promote and watch these films more. Let's try to get his last film-'Dil bechaara' to be released in cinema halls instead of OTT platform.
That's it. Tried to pen my side of the story. Let me know your side, answer the questions asked and try to use social media in a more positive way.
Also, comment down what topics should I write on in upcoming blogs. Thanks
Rest in Peace, Sushant Singh Rajput!🙏
Sushant was not a coward!
People calling him coward, let me tell you. This is purely insensitive and vague. You neither know Sushant nor depression. At 30, he was a self-made superstar, hailing from Patna. AIR 7 in AIEEE, a gold medalist in International Physics Olympiad. Left engineering to start acting from scratch, did serials like Pavithra Rishta- got all the success there and then switched to movies. He was a hero. A coward can never take this amount of risk. So don't judge, before you know the background.
Nepotism and Favourism
These are two completely different words. Both exists in every field, you can imagine of.Favourism is not actually the problem, nepotism is. Our parents want us to live a better life, that's a favour. May be the school/college you are admitted for studying in, is a favour and you may be aware of this fact also.
Suicide-The Probable Root Cause
Posting "Suicide is not a Solution" on our Instagram handle is not going to help anyway. It's not a weakness, it is just another disease. All over the world, 264 million people suffer from depression, 8 lakh people commit suicide every year due to depression. Almost, 80% of the depressed people don't opt for treatment either.
Our Stand
If you are feeling low, have notions of depression-First, accept that you may be depressed. As friends and family, let's be more compassionate and talk. If a friend of yours is going to a therapist, don't judge, Support! Let's create an environment where not we, another Sushant will say - "Suicide is not a Solution!".
Second step, Boycotting films of a particular set of people is fine but we need to make sure that small, non-commercial, realistic cinema remains alive. Just answer a small question-'Masaan, Nill Batte Sannata, Manjhi-The Mountain Man, Sonchiriya, Paan Singh Tomar, Newton' Out of all these films, how many of these have you watched in a Cinema hall/Multiplex? Have you even watched these movies? We need to promote and watch these films more. Let's try to get his last film-'Dil bechaara' to be released in cinema halls instead of OTT platform.
That's it. Tried to pen my side of the story. Let me know your side, answer the questions asked and try to use social media in a more positive way.
Also, comment down what topics should I write on in upcoming blogs. Thanks
Rest in Peace, Sushant Singh Rajput!🙏
You write on great topics.
ReplyDeleteFor selection of topics hatsoff
Representing of things u need to work a little. I would suggest maybe reading already written great blogs will help.
I know I am no one to suggest but I hope you can write great things just need a little brush up.
Thanks Hitesh for the suggestion. Will consider it for sure.
DeleteAlso, you are someone to suggest. Thanks!
Nice view on this unfortunate story
ReplyDeleteThanks Gani!
DeleteYes, it's really very unfortunate.
Great effort Himanshu 👍
ReplyDeleteThanks!
DeleteGreat one himanshu!...one thing before the nepotism and favourism i able to understand the thing and able to relate but after that somewhere i loose connectivity as i felt difficult to understand..if somewhere u can improve that will be better.
DeleteWill try to keep the language more simple in upcoming blogs.
DeleteSsr left many unanswered and his fans witha shock. His parents and friends in grief. No doubt on his talent but could have come up with his inner problems. Well as i learnt he was very emotional and hence failed to cope with the pressure. There are many who has set and example from being an outsider in the industry and are not privileged son or a daughter of any yesteryears big star. There are examples of leftovers too but that does not mean that u are useless and could not stand again on your feet. But what to do withnepotism it exits and no one can run away from this in the private sector or industries like this its a fact that the owner will definitely handover the keys of his ratnalaya jewellers to his son only but not to the dryhonest salesman of his shop. We should learn to fight... we cannot expect happiness all around us 24x7 all 365 days. Ups and downs are the part of life. We should be skilled tactful to come up with worst situations.
ReplyDeleteAnyways we have lost an established talented actor and a kindheartedperson as well. But i wish persons who abetted the same should be taken in to account and be punihed accordingly. May god bless the departed sould rest in peace.
Agree.🙏
DeleteI agree with your every point. Sushant was not a coward. What I feel he used to love stars and galaxies and now he is one of them.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Yes, you are right.
DeleteHimanshu, it's not a complete analysis, there are many factors which affect One's life. One need to understand first is life, then ambition, then struggle, then success or failure.
ReplyDeleteFailure teaches lessons but success elevates desire, which is infinite, one must realize and remain content with satisfaction at a comfortable position.
If you are alive, you may fulfill any desire so be alive, be confident, be quite and calm, be careful, be active, be social and friendly, be close to family and friends, be healthy, be patient, be satisfied with gift of God, then be tactful and courageous to handle any hurdles in life.
Live life lovingly with near and dear.
Thank you so much for your guidance.
DeleteReally Adeorable topic you Choosen, Himanshu .. This mishapping with Sushant teaches us 2 difft. Face's of the Coins,
ReplyDelete1.)if we made stronger anyone we must not make opposition negligible earlier times when Demons have take blessings from God and Godess they'll gone made, likely the peoples who having power of bring changes in upper level in their loby, but at the same time they forgot that the place where they are, they are pushed and driven by all. Rather taking in revenge only people avoid supporting them they got finished.. And that is the ultimate truth. In this we learnt,, direction given in Bhagavad-Gita " Jo aaj aapka hai, kal kissi aurr ka tha, aur kal kissi aur ka hogga" nothing is fixed.. I highly against Nepotism and abolishment of Meritocracy..
2.) I highly against the statement that S.S.R has committed suicide . Fans of the people nvr agree with this statement, rather without knowing the truth we as a human not blame anyone. But as a struggling face of my family 👪 I told everyone that might be the level varies from person to person, and people to people. But everyone faced millions of challenges, that game of check and mate, is starting in mother's womb, and ends till last breath of life. But their is no way to skip out. It gives lots of mileage to 🏃 run if SSR fight this own. If people made 1 celebrities so, higher that have strong sense of building, controlling and destroying reppo, he must get vanished like the ash of cigarette. But in my sight the entire industry except few afraid of the glimpse of SSR. So, we all have never underestimate to us. And nvr rate us on others parameters. While we are losing our flame🔥 we again remember other phrase of Bhagavad-Gita "Tumharra Kya gayya jo tum rootei ho, tummne jo payya yahi payya, jo liya yahi se liyya." *
NOTE:- "Nothing is permanent in this immortal world".🙏
So, never quiet. The Ultimate agenda of life is Mukkti, and ultimately comes after performing our entire duty.
Fight against abolishment of Meritocracy,, should be run 🏃 till end.
Thanks Himanshu for giving us so sensible agenda to discuss and having beautiful views on life, decisive and separation between two different edge of the river.
River--LIFE
1ST Edge- Consistent Struggle.
2ND Edge- Problems solving attitude..🙏
That's all for me. Again Thanks 🙏
Thanks for putting up your stand!
DeleteWe ll miss this legend ...
ReplyDeleteHis scucide teaches us 2 things ...
1. Never give up on ppl who love u
2. Never make urself feel worthless even if some one wants u to feel so ...
True.
DeleteGood one
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot.
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