Don't you think the root cause of most of our problems is the underlying loneliness that most of us experience in our daily lives today. Let's analyse what is the reason behind and derive some practical solution to this. Basically there are two situations i.e, loneliness and Solitude. In loneliness, you are alone and worried about having no one by your side while solitude is experiencing a whole new world when you are alone. You experience happiness when you are alone. You don't need a second person to be happy.
The root cause of our emptiness is that our foundation for living is based on lies. We are stuck in the loop of lie spread by ourselves only and continue exhibiting dual personality. Actually we try to complete our emptiness through other things, actions and relationships (people)- don't we?
As a consequence, we become more dependable on those things, actions or people. This dependency could be at physical, psychological, financial or even at mental level. Let's observe the mere dependency of mobile(a thing) - most of us can leave the people around us but not our phones. We need to rethink this extent of dependency and then act accordingly.
We have an innate fear of losing people or being ignored because we are already empty inside. We act and behave as the other person wants to. In short, we are no more original and act dually inside and outside.
Let's imagine an ideal case here. What if we are complete in ourselves and we didn't need anyone else to be happy and satisfied. To your surprise, it's pretty easy. Just ask yourself realistic questions - not superficial ones. These questions can be Why do we feel isolated or, Why are we limited to ourselves?
The truth of the matter is
"You are not part of the universe, you are the universe itself ."
What if you know one day that your money will increase 2* till you donate it. You will distribute it as much as you can, no? The same way love and happiness evolves . Spread love and happiness as much as you can and trust me it increases exponentially.
Don't allow yourself to be a part of trap based on false assumptions. Truth let's you roam free and feel happy as well as connected to the universe.
The basis should be underlying oneness and the connecting thread should be love, you being the medium.
Thanks for reading through the blog. Please let me know what you think in the comments section.
See you soon.
The root cause of our emptiness is that our foundation for living is based on lies. We are stuck in the loop of lie spread by ourselves only and continue exhibiting dual personality. Actually we try to complete our emptiness through other things, actions and relationships (people)- don't we?
As a consequence, we become more dependable on those things, actions or people. This dependency could be at physical, psychological, financial or even at mental level. Let's observe the mere dependency of mobile(a thing) - most of us can leave the people around us but not our phones. We need to rethink this extent of dependency and then act accordingly.
We have an innate fear of losing people or being ignored because we are already empty inside. We act and behave as the other person wants to. In short, we are no more original and act dually inside and outside.
The truth of the matter is
"You are not part of the universe, you are the universe itself ."
What if you know one day that your money will increase 2* till you donate it. You will distribute it as much as you can, no? The same way love and happiness evolves . Spread love and happiness as much as you can and trust me it increases exponentially.
Don't allow yourself to be a part of trap based on false assumptions. Truth let's you roam free and feel happy as well as connected to the universe.
The basis should be underlying oneness and the connecting thread should be love, you being the medium.
Thanks for reading through the blog. Please let me know what you think in the comments section.
See you soon.
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