Are you always eager to meet and talk with new people but hesitate to do so? If yes, then you are at the right place today. In today's world, people hesitate to converse with new people especially people of the opposite sex.
Welcome back readers!❣️
In this blog,we will be discussing deep on why do we feel shy and what can we do to overcome this shyness?
Before we start , I want to clarify the difference between being shy and an introvert. People are usually confused between the two. Shyness is basically when you want to meet and greet new people but hesitate to converse while an introvert is not all interested in any conversation, they are happy with themselves.
If you have observed minutely, you are not shy everywhere. You are comfortable conversing with your parents,peers and acquaintances. In some particular situations you feel shy,No? Now let's derive some root causes of Shyness?
The first one is false assumptions. We all have certain assumptions about ourselves in our stories- I am dark,fat,lean, blah blah blah. Don't we? Here we go wrong. We need to know that whatever we are , we are just perfect-first step towards being confident.
The second one is Fear especially fear of rejection. Think about the later part of the story. What if you are rejected - you will learn an approach that you can't use to interact with someone,right?
The third and most obvious reason is the environment around us. Actually we tend to copy our relatives and people around us. That's where the role of parents comes into action. Consider a mere example where you and your sister are compared just because she is performing better in studies than you. You may feel inferior and that's why you hesitate to converse with new people due to inferiority complex.
Now let's think of some probable solutions. Always start a conversation with a genuine appreciation. The problem is that we don't compliment people neither we get compliments.
The other approach should be accept rejections and learn some value from them. Consider the case of a singer that takes part in public events - he/she must oversee the fear of being rejected or insulted to perform to his/her full potential.
Third and most important solution is don't react on small things. Preserve your energy for productive cause.
Consider another example of starting a talk with girls - We fear about the rejection or being ignored. The best approach should be talk with them gently and respect them genuinely.
That's all for the day. Take care .
Comment out what do you think and your personal experiences also.
Welcome back readers!❣️
In this blog,we will be discussing deep on why do we feel shy and what can we do to overcome this shyness?
Before we start , I want to clarify the difference between being shy and an introvert. People are usually confused between the two. Shyness is basically when you want to meet and greet new people but hesitate to converse while an introvert is not all interested in any conversation, they are happy with themselves.
If you have observed minutely, you are not shy everywhere. You are comfortable conversing with your parents,peers and acquaintances. In some particular situations you feel shy,No? Now let's derive some root causes of Shyness?
The first one is false assumptions. We all have certain assumptions about ourselves in our stories- I am dark,fat,lean, blah blah blah. Don't we? Here we go wrong. We need to know that whatever we are , we are just perfect-first step towards being confident.
The second one is Fear especially fear of rejection. Think about the later part of the story. What if you are rejected - you will learn an approach that you can't use to interact with someone,right?
The third and most obvious reason is the environment around us. Actually we tend to copy our relatives and people around us. That's where the role of parents comes into action. Consider a mere example where you and your sister are compared just because she is performing better in studies than you. You may feel inferior and that's why you hesitate to converse with new people due to inferiority complex.
Now let's think of some probable solutions. Always start a conversation with a genuine appreciation. The problem is that we don't compliment people neither we get compliments.
The other approach should be accept rejections and learn some value from them. Consider the case of a singer that takes part in public events - he/she must oversee the fear of being rejected or insulted to perform to his/her full potential.
Third and most important solution is don't react on small things. Preserve your energy for productive cause.
Consider another example of starting a talk with girls - We fear about the rejection or being ignored. The best approach should be talk with them gently and respect them genuinely.
That's all for the day. Take care .
Comment out what do you think and your personal experiences also.
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