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Are you always eager to meet and talk with new people but hesitate to do so? If yes, then you are at the right place today. In today's world, people hesitate to converse with new people especially people of the opposite sex. Welcome back readers!❣️ In this blog,we will be discussing deep on why do we feel shy and what can we do to overcome this shyness? Before we start , I want to clarify the difference between being shy and an introvert. People are usually confused between the two. Shyness is basically when you want to meet and greet new people but hesitate to converse while an introvert is not all interested in any conversation, they are happy with themselves. If you have observed minutely, you are not shy everywhere. You are comfortable conversing with your parents,peers and acquaintances. In some particular situations you feel shy,No? Now let's derive some root causes of Shyness? The first one is false assumptions. We all have certain assumptions about ourselve...

Don't you think the root cause of most of our problems is the underlying loneliness that most of us experience in our daily lives today. Let's analyse what is the reason behind and derive some practical solution to this. Basically there are two situations i.e, loneliness and Solitude. In loneliness, you are alone and worried about having no one by your side while solitude is experiencing a whole new world when you are alone. You experience happiness when you are alone. You don't need a second person to be happy. The root cause of our emptiness is that our foundation for living is based on lies. We are stuck in the loop of lie spread by ourselves only and continue exhibiting dual personality. Actually we try to complete our emptiness through other things, actions and relationships (people)- don't we? As a consequence, we become more dependable on those things, actions or people. This dependency could be at physical, psychological, financial or even at mental level....